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Tailoring is the most important part of every wedding; Make it interesting and easy for your tailor to design your wedding blouse. Here are mind-blowing blouse ideas from Bollywood diva Deepika Padukone!

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Few months before my wedding I started browsing through fashion magazines, papers and booklets to decide the best wedding blouse. It is every girl’s dream to have a perfect wedding blouse stitched and so as mine! Having overloaded with so many arrangements, we hardly spend time in deciding the best wedding blouses. Do we get time to finalize a blouse design? I really doubt!
Sarees are mandatory for weddings as they talk about our culture and custom but choosing the right blouse design makes it look trendy and neat.  I say “Sarees are the sexiest attire for a woman that reveals her perfect figure”. Do you agree? I’m sure most of you would! When it comes to choosing the perfect wedding blouse, you need to decide them by yourself as your personal choice of fashion differs from others.
When I was searching for trendy blouse ideas, I thought of choosing fashion and lifestyle of my favorite Bollywood diva, Deepika Padukone. She is widely known in Bollywood for her dress sense and her style…

Are we killing our humanity in the name of social media publicity?

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Social media is overloaded with personal pictures, group pictures, selfies and memes. Age doesn’t really matter to be on social networking sites. School kids, college children, teenagers and even senior citizen have been crazy about social media. I wake up from bed by checking the number of notifications and friend request on the famous social media! All our day to day activities are updated as status on social networking platform. It didn’t matter to be until recently!

It was during the time of Chennai floods, I realised how helpful these social media’s are and on the other hand it also made me realise how we are killing humanity in the name of social media publicity. Sites like Facebook and Twitter were the only point of contact to get help when the mobile networks were down throughout Chennai. There were people who really worked hard to help the victims and to provide them with best assistance that they could!
While that is something we need to feel proud of! It was during the Che…

Sharpen you cooking skills! It helps you to impress elders at home!

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Just like my husband, his friends at the office were also craving for home cooked food so whatever I prepared was always loved by everyone! I would admit that my cooking is not worst! Due to the appreciations and applauds received, I learnt different dishes and never hesitate to try anything new anytime. My husband always feels happy about home-made food so I kept improving my cooking skills day after day! I never had passion towards cooking until I got married and had to manage food for myself and my husband. Having stayed away from home for almost eight years, my husband never complains home food! So, he never complains my cooking, in fact, I receive a lot of appreciation for my ‘trial’ cooking from my husband and his office mates.


I hardly get an opportunity to cook food for my in-laws as we stay away from them but luckily I got a chance when they stayed in our place for few days. Though I was a bit scared to prepare food, I had no other choice as they were my guests and I had to …

Has anyone realized the fights that happen during your wedding? The Silly fights before and during the wedding! There are even ideas to avoid the fights!

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Raise your hands if your wedding was full of tension and confusion! It’s not just you, but almost everyone has a hectic preparation for their big day. Some walk with a cool head but most of them (including me) turn everything upside down! The wedding has a lot of things to do, you need to plan, prepare, understand, discuss and do a lot more things.
Wedding preparations are not done by a single person. It involves more than one person. For my wedding while my mom took the role of the planner, my dad was the financier and executor, my sister was the designer and I took the role of a purchaser!!!
I don’t know why I had so many silly fights during my wedding preparations. It might be because of my short temper or fear of getting married. I’m sure most of you might have experienced the same fear and would have fought with your close one!
Here is a list of fights that are common (Just for laughs)!!!
The first fight begins with your boss – You definitely need at least 2 weeks holiday to cele…

Best wedding guest!!! Is it necessary to be the ‘best wedding guest’? Do you want to be a perfect wedding guest?

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Aren’t you surprised with the term ‘Being the best wedding guest’? When the wedding organizers take efforts to make a wedding a grand occasion, we the visitors/guest/attendees of the wedding should also take care of us to be the best wedding guest! This helps the organizers to have a happy time!
The main of being the best wedding guest is to win the hearts of people around you. In fact, you may not know who is watching you! If you have been thinking that wedding is only for sexy outfits, flirting, having fun, showing off your new jewelry and costumes, you need to change your mind and think of others who are ‘eyeing’ you! Be a good wedding guest and win the hearts of bride and groom family.
Accept their invitation and please respond
Due to time constraints most of them prefer posting the invitations through post office (I think, we remember post office only during special occasions). Others even prefer courier and speed post which can be tracked. As soon as you receive the invite, make…

Dress code in temple - Is it necessary? Why is it a topic of discussion?

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Recently in news I read about making dress code a mandate in temples across Tamil Nadu. If you look closely, the fashion keeps changing and so are the lifestyle and dress sense of every individual. Should we go to an extent of making a dress code mandate? Yes, of course it is needed! In the recent past, we all try to adapt to westernized culture and fail to remember our tradition (including me).
     If a rule doesn’t remind us, in the long run there are chances for us to forget our customs and tradition. When it comes to dress sense, most of us compare the dress sense of men and women without understanding that we both are different!

There are many temples that allow men to enter with their shirts off. “Why men are allowed to enter temples without shirts?” Men have hair on their chest and it is understood that hair absorbs positive energy and thus they are asked to remove their shirts while they enter the temple. Whatever our ancestors have said, has an in depth meaning but we…

The Uncontrollable shopping habit! Is it just me?

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Most of my Sunday’s are spent on shopping! To make it simpler, my husband insists me to keep the list (things to be bought) ready. My list definitely has groceries, clothing, vegetables, fruits, meat, cosmetic and more. I’m well prepared a week in advance for my “Sunday Shopping”. Last Sunday, I was ready with the list and read out the items to my husband and he agreed to get the entire list of items that I have noted down.

I was dressed and got ready 'on time' because shopping is one among my favourite hobbies and it is one of the reason I wait for Sundays. I was ready with huge carry bags (to carry home my stuffs) and we walked out of the home for a happy shopping. Once we reached the supermarket (the biggest in our city), I pulled out the biggest shopping trolley (though my list is small) in the mall and walked around the supermarket like a mad lady searching for a lost thing! Most of the time, me and my husband end up playing hide and seek in the supermarket!
In first few…

Change your attitude!Not all women who do not conceive just after her marriage are infertile!

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You do not know what she is going through! Mental stresses, loss of someone or whatever it may be! The society looks down at all women who do not conceive soon after her marriage. Is there a rule to get pregnant immediately after you get married?
     At the age of 22, people started questioning me about my marriage plans which I was not able to postpone till the age of 23! Yes. I got married at the age of 23 (which is very soon according to me). Soon after my marriage, from the first month, I had questions from all my relatives, friends and family regarding my future plans and good news (Of course, baby making, conceiving). Few of them were bold enough to ask me straight and others asked indirect questions! The interrogations are never ending!
     People whom I know, and whom I never know keep asking me the same question “do you have good news?” Yes, Of course I have many! I read a lot of books now, I have found a new hobby, I have had a new hairstyle, I have learnt a new dish, I h…

Are you all set for a beach holiday? Here is a check list of what to take on a beach holiday!

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Do you have dreams to spend your holidays in beach?  Beach holidays are adventurous and it brings a lot of excitement and fun. If the usual theaters and malls bore you, you need to choose a silent and lonely beach to spend time with your loved ones. If you have been to beaches regularly, you would know what to take and what not to take but for first timers like me, he is a list of items that I can think off that will come handy for the beach trip!
The mandatory items (I would say they are very very important things to take) For all travels, there are few necessary things that need to be carried. It will be a difficult travel if these mandatory things are not carried along. ·Passport (if you are visiting other country)·Map·Mobile phones·Camera·Medicines·Credit and debit cards·Cash·Wallet
The essential items to be carried to beach (Its okay if you miss one or two items) Here is the list of mandatory things that need to be carried during a beach holiday. If any of these things are missed, …